AL-ANON
GUIDELINES The
Shared Experiences of Al-Anon and Alateen Members TAKING
A GROUP INVENTORY (G-8) Taking
a periodic group inventory helps to keep your group healthy and invigorated. Members can use the inventory to discuss new service opportunities and
address major or minor concerns before the group’s unity is disrupted. Listed below are methods for taking a group inventory along
with an inventory checklist. Methods
for Taking an Inventory Each
group is encouraged to develop its own procedure for taking an inventory. Regardless of the method, experience shows that the group benefits most
by allowing time to openly discuss the responses, comments, and suggestions. Most members find that the answers to any questions that arise can be
solved by application of the Twelve Traditions as well as by using the
Al-Anon/Alateen Service Manual (P24/27). Here
are some suggested methods: Use
the Inventory questions for group discussion. Members may answer the questions with a “Yes” or “No”, or in a
more detailed manner.
The
chairperson or secretary collects the completed forms and uses the answers for a
group discussion.
The
chairperson provides a note pad to each member.
The
chairperson reads a question and encourages members to share more than just
“yes” or “no” and to write down their comments. Pass
a basket to collect the pages. Pass
the basket again having each individual take out a page randomly and read the
answer. (This method usually
generates more honesty because of the anonymity.) Give
a copy of the inventory to each member and ask that they fill it out and bring
it back the following week.
At
the next meeting have the chairperson read a question and have others read their
responses. My
Part As A Member Of The Group Do
I attend the meetings regularly?
Do
I periodically volunteer to lead a meeting?
Do
I attend steering or business meetings and offer ideas for improvement?
Can
I accept disagreement and differing points of view good-naturedly?
Do
I volunteer for, or willingly accept, a group office: group representative,
secretary, chairperson, program chairperson, or treasurer?
Am
I understanding when personal circumstances compel some members to limit their
group service?
Do
I criticize others in the group or gossip about them?
Do
I ever repeat anything personal I have heard at meetings or from another member?
Do
I make telephone calls for my personal recovery and to help others, rather than
to complain and gossip?
Do
I welcome new members, talk with them, suggest pieces of Al-Anon/Alateen
literature, offer my phone number or the group’s telephone list and local
meeting schedule?
Do
I volunteer to sponsor newcomers? Am I presently sponsoring another member?
Do
I read Al-Anon/Alateen literature every day, and apply the principles to my
daily life? Do I let the group know which pieces of Conference Approved
Literature (CAL) are particularly helpful as part of my sharing at meetings?
Do
I keep the focus on Al-Anon and my own recovery when I share?
Do
I help out before and after meetings by setting up or putting away tables and
chairs, literature, and refreshments?
Do
I interrupt or carry on a conversation while another member is speaking?
Do
I listen carefully to the speakers, the chairperson, and other group members?
Do
I avoid giving advice to members?
Do
I try to make the fellowship known to others who need help?
Do
I participate in group service projects?
When
group problems arise, do I focus on the problem or the solution?
MY VIEW OF THE
GROUP Does
everyone have a chance to participate in service to the group?
Do
we criticize others in the group or gossip about them?
Are
we forming cliques or being indifferent to other members of the group?
Do
I pressure the group to accept my ideas because I have been in the fellowship a
long time or for any other reason?
Does
the group follow the suggested Al-Anon/Alateen meeting format?
Do
we make sure newcomers have at least one member’s telephone number, a schedule
of local meetings, and some Al-Anon/Alateen literature?
Do
we let newcomers know what sponsorship is and how to obtain a sponsor?
Do
we keep our meetings fresh and interesting in order to retain our longtime
members?
Does
our group undertake service projects on its own or in conjunction with the
district, information service or area?
Do
we have a literature display of Conference Approved Literature (CAL)? Do we
regularly reorder CAL? Do we have a group lending library?
Is
our group active and supportive at the district and area levels? Do we send
representatives and financial contributions to local and area service arms as
well as the World Service Office (WSO)? Do we support the information service
office?
Does
the group leave the meeting room in an acceptable manner?
MY VIEW OF OUR
WEEKLY MEETINGS Is
there a chairperson each week?
Are
our meetings interesting and helpful?
Do
we encourage everyone to participate in the discussions by sharing and
listening?
Do
we refrain from giving advice?
Do
we make good use of our Conference Approved Literature and The Forum for themes
and subjects of meetings?
Are
our meeting topics Al-Anon related?
Do
we stick to the subject of the meeting or wander off on tangents?
Are
we easily diverted from the topic in order to focus on a member’s problem?
Do
we discuss the alcoholic and his/her shortcomings?
Now
that I have participated in taking a group inventory, I plan to take the
following action(s):
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